They say "No pain no gain."
What if there is no real pain but only a fabricated carbon and gain was always there waiting us to realize it and admire in heart? Hot pepper gives so much pain to me but should we also ask it some other people who loves it deeply. Just to find one word that will inspire it is full of joy to read 600 pages to some people like me and it is a real torture to some other. If everything is love would there be any pain then?
To me there is gain only in happiness and joy.
If there is pain but you are unaware then there is no pain for you. (If there is joy but you are unaware then there is no joy for you either.) More interestingly if there is pain and you are fully aware of it then everything is a gain and you are left with no pain. Why? Here is the explanation;
There is a gain in pain only when there is some kind of a meaning in it. Because if there is pain but you don't see any meaning i.e., you don't read its message and you do everything as you did before then there is no gain. In order smb. to find meaning in anything s/he needs to go out of it or get free from it. If you are going to carry the chair you sit on you'd better stand up first. So when you are in the pain you cannot find any gain. You need to see pain apart from yourself and say aha! how couldn't i see this before. And if you're able to say it you are totally in joy and happiness in addition to being apart from the pain which is not yours. (which has never been yours either)
To summarize
One must not kill the pain rather kill his sleep.
